THE WINDING ROAD OF LONG DISTANCE BREAKUP
By BreakUpAdviceOnline.com Staff
Has everything in this world reached the cutting edge convenience? Some generations ago, communications travel via snail mail; offshore business transactions are set formally in conference rooms personally attended by representatives. How far has convenience gone? In one snap of the keyboard, every deal is finished right in front of the PC monitor. You could shop in one click, let the credit card meddle with the payments and all you have to do is wait at your doorsteps for the delivery.
What about the convenience of the emotional side? In one browsing, there are lists of potential dates you can find online. Personal information is just one click away, that is, if the facts are true. Chat rooms cater the long line of virtual dates capable of exchanging romantic talks. The 21st century has started the most of this love fantasy and millions of long distance love affairs. Thanks to the convenience of Internet. Out of this innovation emerged long distance breakups in the blink of an eye.
The Internet has also eased up the communication of people who worked outside their countries. Couples had used the technology to the max using the popular chat provisions that extends to sending messages to their mobile phones. In a snap, there is no more torture of waiting to hear sweet words and bitter words of long distance breakup.
INTELLECTUAL ATTRACTION:
Long Distance relationship is purely mental because it done through communication of the minds. One could get attracted with someone out of consistent chat. Thus, it can also be called “intellectual attraction.” Without seeing a person in reality, say if the communication is in pure text form in chat rooms, manipulation of words could create a make believe character that is appealing to the brain waves of another person from the other side of the planet. The question is: what if the words are just lie?
One could get hooked not by the actual physical and mental chemistry of actual meeting but only of what does not really exist. It will turn out to be a love that never was. Yet it happens to most people having no intention of making the affair happen. They claimed to be in love with someone virtually, yet they do not strive to make it a reality. Without the barrier of consciousness, it is easier to express oneself while invisible. There is nothing to protect from but the flow of words. If everything gets messed up, one can just do a cold boot and everything is gone. But what happens to something both people can build as real partnership with long distance love affair? Simply none. One goes out to accomplish individual daily goals, and the only time the affair is true is when the two gets online, while getting hooked on the net is under the mercy of the cables and sound functioning of the equipments.
In that case, long distance breakup is as simple as sending some flashy words of goodbye through email, or simply keeping the computer off in a week, or simply stopping to correspond. In a deeper form, it could linger for quite a while especially if the photos and data of the person is available online for convenient virtual stalking. Actually, this kind of breakup has mutated differently because of the new prognosis in psychiatry on the impact of INTERNET ADDICTION. Given all the means to access the Internet, everyone has a place to go to. Some people dwell in virtual living: they learn ideas, they interact, they put data, they do business, and the worst, they fall in love. And when the picture is clear, all can be seen is a person drooping sleeplessly right in front of the computer waiting for some realities and virtual sensations the computer can give.
On the positive side, long distance love can be a reality only after making it happen. The two persons can meet, continue real courtship, dating, and in time, marry.
So that is all about pure long distance love, breakup or happy end. How about the couple that has established real love but only separated by work, that one has to leave the country and communicate only through the Internet? Having built a stronger and real foundation in reality is better that when one is separated by circumstances, the motivation to continue the affair is based on concluding it to be a happy ending.
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