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HANDLING YOUR EX GIRLFRIEND

By BreakUpAdviceOnline.com Staff

Nothing in this world seems to be permanent. Everything comes to its own end. Relationships come and go, relived and rekindled. People has a general notion that a kind of special “love or care” with each other will keep the whole world going well with them as long as they live. The situation becomes ironic when a sudden twist of events changes from orderly into chaos. We are surrounded with so many things that affect our mind and emotional state, that at times lead to misbehavior that turns life upside-down. Man becomes a slave of his emotions at times if he lacks the strength. As a result one becomes insecure. The impact of consequences suffered in relationships inside the home, lovers and friends is great. Some males are weaker in spirit than his female counterpart. They resort to being happy go lucky, neutralizing what they feel by addiction to alcohol, or womanizing.

The male genre has the greatest advantages in a boy-girl game of love. Moving his way out to approach another lady of his choice doesn’t make him a lesser person. The male ego is all that makes him up as a gentleman, or a monster, perhaps to his way of being a chauvinist. The girl on the other hand, seems to be demoralized if she does so. It takes two to tango, as the saying goes. Definitely, in two disagreeing parties, one is surely the villain. Whoever it is, there is always difficulty getting back to settle each other. In case of separation, the woman seem to get affected greatly with her lost self esteem. The tendency is to continue her silence, and never to get into an idea of reconciliation with his erring boyfriend. The man on the other hand may get off and loiter around with other girls, with always the possibilities of playing around until he meets the girl of his choice, or either he realized he wish to go back to his ex girlfriend and insists that she talks with him again.

There are so many reasons why a man wants to talk to his ex girlfriend. With today’s effective communication facilities, you could reach thru your ex thru text, voice calls, fax or e-mails. A woman who has been hurt so many times by constant annoying bullies due to her boy friend’s insecurities that turns into unreasonable jealous bouts is apt to forgetting him. It paved the way to gradual detachment of the woman’s feelings toward his man, finally resulting in ending their relationship. The man who later realized his misgivings tried to get back the attention of the his ex girlfriend but of no avail. Nothing could pacify a spirit that was broken thru numerous outright belittling of her person when the man feels like exercising his negative emotional display of rage or jealous attitudes. Being some sort of faultfinder, he shows attitude of being an over protective person with a degree of malice in his words if he starts nagging. No amount of pleadings has change the girl to get back to his side again. She won’t talk to him either, even if they almost bump on each other.

The are so many other reasons why an ex girlfriend does not want to pause for a talk with her ex. Being involved again in a new relationship is enough to turn into a new leaf. She turns up her back from his previous love for a new one that she finds fulfilling and satisfying.

The sensitivity of the woman is another factor to consider why it is hard for the man to reconcile with her. She won’t heed nor listen to any of his pleads. Her lost sense of pride had swallowed her up to a degree of demoralization that she better not talk about him anymore. Downgrading her to lower levels of degree when she junked her for another need an amount of retaliations. The only way is downright rejecting him in return when a time comes for him to realize his mistakes. To forgive is enough, but not to get back again to his side.

Irreconcilable love affair ending up this way always leave behind many lessons in life that help us grow better in our way to our next relationship, making us better individuals and socially mature people in any place we are part of.