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END YOUR RELATIONSHIP EFFECTIVELY

By BreakUpAdviceOnline.com Staff

How are you going to effectively end your relationship? It is useless to put consistency in any decisions by blaming other people on your sunken destiny. If you will rationalize why you can’t seem to forget the past and seem to be clinging and longing for the man or woman you love for many years though it’s over, you have to stick into your mind that the romance developed within is mentally sculpted in the brain. After feeling and being hovered by the emotion of love, everything has been settled deep inside the mind and memory that it can’t simply unlearn overnight. Make it simple. DON’T SEE YOUR EX!

Deep within you may be battling with the whole idea. In fact, you literally have been away with your ex for some months, but the truth is, you are not making sure that you will cast him or her away in your mind. What are the reasons why you can’t forget him? Forget means forget. There are evidences why you still cling to past love---it’s because you keep it deep inside. Don’t see your ex! You can do it in many ways by unlearning it wholeheartedly:

1. DON’T SEE YOUR EX IN MEMORY:

* Throw away photographs:

Unfortunately, you claim that your picture with your ex on that beach scene is the sexiest picture you have on earth. Okay, if you really can’t throw the picture, scan the image or get the digital copy and ask a graphic artist to remove your ex there. If you will brave this enough, dispose any other photos of your ex so that there is nothing memorable to see in the photo albums.

* Dispose Items that remind you of your ex:

Just like throwing away photographs, this one can be converted to cash. Do a garage sale at home and sell the shabby, memorable goodies. By doing this, you are shooting three birds at the same time by clearing the house, earning some cash and clearing your heart.

* Avoid the places:

While the pain is fresh or has taken a year of tough struggle to forget, avoid the romantic restaurants, parks and simply the places where you usually hanged around.

2. DON’T SEE YOUR EX IN WORDS:

You have done the good way of erasing the tangible memories as mentioned above, but you never stopped calling your best friend for a conversation that has your ex as the main topic! Simply stop mentioning your ex to anyone. Stop dropping by the message boards to talk about how your ex battered you emotionally or how you seamed the hemline of his coat. Thou shall not speak of your ex!

3. DON’T SEE YOUR EX IN DEEDS:

Being in love is unfortunately habit forming. Your brain has made sure that all your works are in conjunction of what your ex has molded you into, and the emotion has spiced it with efficiency. Stop doing the usual activities that you do with him like, say playing golf, watching movies, you name it. You can temporarily divert your attention by joining a new club or new activity that is least of interest to your ex. Keep yourself busy with something else and be good to yourself.

4. DON’T SEE YOUR EX SUBCONSCIOUSLY:

Music is one of the most subconscious attacks that you may not notice why you can’t forget your ex. Stop listening to the songs your ex admire the most. Dispose the CDs if you have to. Read books that will not remind you of your ex and let other fresh ideas fill up your head. Live everyday thinking of your goals and career.

It will take years to heal a broken heart, that is, if it only involves one feeling. Breaking up is complex because of the responsibilities built out of the relationship. It is a partnership, which two individuals have worked out to build dreams together. The sad thing about breaking up is when there are children involved---one can’t simply burn the memories without affecting them who have no fault. No legal settlement can answer to this. No amount of “don’t see your ex” can motivate unlearning.