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IT SERVES TO BE BOTH DOMESTIC AND OUTGOING

By BreakUpAdviceOnline.com Staff

The subject, “Going Out vs. Staying Home,” is a keyword addressed more particularly to women. Their emancipation in the early 20th century opened horizons for them to work in factories, offices, chance to open business establishments in their names, hold prestigious political, and government positions. The discrimination of women has gradually diminished in highly traditional countries as Japan, China and lightly liberal nations in the Middle East. However, places like Saudi Arabia, Iraq, Pakistan, India and the rest of the Muslim world are so fixed in their mixtures of old traditions and religious beliefs that make them sedentary against adjusting to the new trend and novelties around, especially with the concerns of women in their country. They don’t let go of them to run into public offices, and many other jobs enjoyed at present by other women of the western world, and more modern countries in the orient.

Majority of women rate high in efficiency and effectiveness in all walks of endeavor in the modern world. The run business and political offices not by chance but by appointments or elections with great degree of prominence than his brother, the male genre. Sad to say, that while women are making slaves of themselves to be side partners of their husbands to provide basic or general family needs, the still hold the set in the home as the housekeeper and caretaker to the needs of the husband and children.

To go out or to stay at home to fill these needs is a big dilemma that confronts the women of this generation. It is a matter of who to give up, her career or the wholesome development of children with a mother inside the home to nourish them with the right training of a mother, and the right emotional and psychological development that can be given only thru her secured love and care. These are some cons when a woman elects to work rather than just stay at home for one basic need, to provide care and love as a woman and mother. Today’s trend and demands in the economic condition of every family finds these cons to be left to that concern alone. It is so much inevitable to settle just like it inside the confines of one’s home and to earn nothing in a day. The woman who holds the budget finds it so difficult to make both ends meet, when the envelope brought home by the husband is so meager that it could hardly make the ends, or not at all.

Another con about a woman getting a job outside the home is the competing impact it creates between her and her husband. The egoistic male at times finds it hard to believe and accept that because of the expanding horizons of his effective wife in her job, she is raised to the level of prominence than what he’s showing up. Male ego is inevitably suppressed. When it runs loose, it turns into feelings of insecurities that manifest in forms of anger, jealousy and suspicions. When tantrums get to its edge in the house because of this, the home becomes a picture of chaos and disorder. The advantage in having sufficient family is put at stake. Continuous disagreements will front a total risk to peace and harmony that finally ends in divorce. Not all have the same experience but most happen this way.

Let us talk about the Pro on the other hand. Some women are very creative and take no chances of being idle. Since they can’t accept being totally deprived from practicing their desired objectives, or goals, they resort to try getting engaged on domestic jobs. Many of this work are creative jobs in painting, writing, engaging in home business. The obligation to earn more in order to add to the family income and all the while attending to the domestic affairs of her concern inside the home provides two shots in one setting. This way the woman feels accomplished, doing things she likes and at the same time not neglecting the attention she should give to the family, especially the children. The set up becomes a combination of joy and fulfillment.